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myrodisrising 33 M
1  question
meeting - 6/17/2008

any one out there interested in a 22 soon to be 23 year old virgin and will be in the northeast florida area either near or around jacksonville, st.augustine, or gainsville?

12 response(s), 24 votes
gemstar2000 54 F
1  question
Accused of being a fake?? - 6/17/2008

I just had this lovely experience today. A man who lives in another state tells me he's relocating to my area and would like to chat, to see if there's a connection before he gets here. I've chatted with him twice on YIM, and both times, he told me he wasn't sure when he was moving.

Yesterday, he sent me a message in TSdates.com again, asking if I'd like to chat. I told him to please contact ...

26 response(s), 19 votes
rm_raniraja4xx 39 C
2  questions
How many of u have REALLY met a member from TSdates.com? are testomonials really true? any opimions? - 6/17/2008

Do people actulay meet other m, embers at this site? how to shortlist teh right members - any tips?

39 response(s), 29 votes
hotchocncream 37 C
53  questions
Mixed messages and crossed wires - 6/17/2008

Here is a question that goes out to single ladies who have one or more f*ckbuddies or fwb's and the blokes who have a 'romantic' style of seduction.

Have you ever misread a man's style of romancing you in order to gain intimate access to you and your body as something more?

Some men have a romantic way about them, and even if they are not looking for a relationship, but just ...

7 response(s), 6 votes
luckycpl99 58 C
2  questions
"Honest" cheaters - 6/17/2008

My wife and I will sometimes browse the single males for a MFM possibility and we are amazed not only by how many men are fine with sleeping with women behind the backs of their husbands, a practice we would assume to be against the very nature of "lifestyle" philosophy, but how often the word "honest" shows up in their profiles!

So the question to those single men who want to fuck an ...

14 response(s), 32 votes
6Olderlover9 62 M
3  questions
getting off by bj - 6/17/2008

I am 46 avg shape 7 3/4 "cock it has been 6 years since a women has been able to get me off by a bj , and there have been plenty that have tried. I got a massage sun. night with tension release but got no release she said that has never happened to her before. Is it me I'm hard at the time but they just do not get it done.

13 response(s), 15 votes
SexiLuvinGirl 61 F
81  questions
Serious Question? Curious Mind Wants To Know! - 6/17/2008

This is a serious question! When men have an orgasm, do they always ejaculate? Otherwise, there is NO way a man can fake an orgasm. If he comes inside a woman? That woman can tell or at least I can.... Or, are there some women that can't tell? Heck I dunno.

25 response(s), 20 votes
rm_backfortyguy 37 M
1  question
Hard n fast? Slow and smooth??? - 6/17/2008

The title pretty much says it all. How do you like it????

27 response(s), 16 votes
wanttopamperyou2 69 M
16  questions
Has anyone had the...................... - 6/17/2008

Site Discussion and Feedback group visit your blog? Have you viewed some of the concerns of members and their responses?

12 response(s), 19 votes
PittsSC1 60 M
3  questions
The "come-hither" move to stimulate the G-spot - 6/17/2008

Anyone had any experience with this? Women, how does it work for you? Women, is is almost cheating?

I ask that last one because it seemed so easy to get my last SO over the top!

9 response(s), 14 votes
SexiLuvinGirl 61 F
81  questions
Is Good Oral Sex Better Than Intercourse? - 6/17/2008

What's your opinion! Is good oral sex better than intercourse?...

37 response(s), 19 votes
Isabellaseeking 62 F
32  questions
Circumcision how much did they leave behind? - 6/17/2008

I have "experienced" both circumcised and un circumcised men. I always found that the one I knew who was circumcised did pose much difference to the un circumcised one except for when flaccid the glans was not covered by skin. However when erect there was still enough skin left on the shaft to be able to pull it over the head when stroking him. It wouldn't cover it to the extent of an uncut but ...

16 response(s), 18 votes
rm_Roswellgirl2 58 F
1  question
Older women, younger men - 6/16/2008

How do you feel about older women seeing younger men. How do men feel about it.

39 response(s), 40 votes
6Olderlover9 62 M
3  questions
older men and younger women - 6/16/2008

I'm 46 avg build , why is it so wrong for me to want to be with younger women 18-21? you see younger women going after older men all the time so why can't I go after them if were both happy what is so wrong?

22 response(s), 20 votes
SexiLuvinGirl 61 F
81  questions
Brave Enough To Meet Someone Without A Picture? - 6/16/2008

Out of curiosity, has anyone "ever" been brave enough to meet some one for a date/drink/lunch etc., that you chatted with online without seeing a picture of them first?

34 response(s), 33 votes
rm_kanda7275 49 C
10  questions
g/f in a 3 some with another guy - 6/16/2008

my g/f n i have discussed it in great detail, but , she isnt sure how to be comfortable with the situation. any sugestions?

7 response(s), 7 votes
rm_caitsexy 58 F
1  question
Males & their photos - 6/16/2008

What is it about the guys on here and no pics? I understand that some like to stay anonymous because of their jobs etc, and that I respect. But when asking for a photo to be sent over why is it you get every excuse under the sun? ....

'I'm lousy with computers' OR 'Don't know how to do that' OR 'I can only send via a mobile phone' OR 'Sorry don't have one'

Can anyone explain ...

14 response(s), 36 votes
PittsSC1 60 M
3  questions
Why are men so eager to meet face-to-face with women? - 6/16/2008

Guys and gals, please share your thoughts on the following questions (somewhat paraphrased) posed by a lovely woman on this site. I'm posting it to get her lots of feedback.

1. Why are men so eager to meet face-to-face with women they meet online?

2. Believe it or not, I [she writes] have gotten half a hundred e-mails from complete ...

16 response(s), 20 votes
SexiLuvinGirl 61 F
81  questions
Web Cam Sex - What's Your Opinion? - 6/16/2008

I don't think web cam sex is necessarily "bad". I've actually participated in web cam sex myself, but to a specific audience and/or persons; and, I'm very particular on who watches.

What I think is wrong is this:

There's a handful of women on TSdates.com that exploit themselves to anyone and everyone regardless of the age difference. They get naked and masturbate and do whatever ...

19 response(s), 17 votes
rm_Rushravan 70 M
5  questions
question for all BIG males - 6/16/2008

Have you ever been used, just because of the dick size. Ever felt like you had been??? If so, how do you deal with the rejection when the people just quit talking to you. Guess they've had enough, or the husband got jealous, or whatever. But then they won't even tell you why.

Could understand most anything, if I were told WHY. But it is just rude to cease all contact, without ...

19 response(s), 27 votes
rm_jazzhead05 53 M
21  questions
blogging to the world? - 6/16/2008

I recently created a blog and in the settings there's the option to have the blog viewable by network friends only, by TSdates.com members only, or by anyone. By anyone? How would people who aren't TSdates.com members get to view a blog on TSdates.com? Does it mean that visitors to the site who haven't actually become members (free or paying) can still look at blogs? Or does it mean that somehow just anyone on the ...

9 response(s), 22 votes
rm_sexyvoize 47 F
14  questions
his place or mine .... - 6/16/2008

GUYS

would you invite someone you just got to know online on this site to your house ?

LADIES

would you accept if someone you just got to know invites you to his place ?


or is it generally safer to meet at a public place first .. just so you know the person is not a psycho or something ..

28 response(s), 21 votes
alvinstardust82 55 M
1  question
Many questions for ladies - 6/16/2008

Ladies. Please give me some advise on my pictures. Do they turn you on? How do I get noticed? I have not had any responds and do not know what to do. Please advise. Thank you

12 response(s), 21 votes
rm_Imtall54 59 F
4  questions
Submissive? - 6/15/2008

I plan to meet with a very submissive man, who only wants to serve and please his Mistress (me). Have you ever encountered this type of sub? He's straight, but will do anything from housework, to "servicing" me sexually, however I am not to actually have penetrative sex with him. This is a whole new world for me, and I would appreciate anyone's ideas on what I can have him do (outside of the ...

16 response(s), 23 votes
DarthFreaky 48 M
1  question
Reading Email - 6/15/2008

I have received an email but can't open it.

I fully appreciate that as a standard member my interaction with the website and other users is severely limited and its been a while since I was last a member with TSdates.com; but have things changed for standard members in that you can't even read emails to you now?

Thoughts/suggestions welcome.

7 response(s), 15 votes
rm_joeman1115 40 M
14  questions
ok - i'm missing the obvious... - 6/15/2008

I'm having one of those moments...

what does bbw actually stand for? I appreciate it's for 'bigger girl' but literally?

sorry if i'm being very thick.

16 response(s), 20 votes
rm_sxsrch3 32 M
34  questions
Another size. - 6/15/2008

Do people actually read this part or do they just read the title and respond with that??

12 response(s), 22 votes
rm_sxsrch3 32 M
34  questions
Size? - 6/15/2008

I have heard that size does matter and size does not matter. What size does matter? Length or Width is more important?

21 response(s), 23 votes
rm_19harley86 67 M
19  questions
recession - 6/15/2008

Are we(usa) really in a ression? Who do we turn to or blame?

27 response(s), 19 votes
rm_19harley86 67 M
19  questions
prices - 6/15/2008

What does all you folks thing of the prices of necessary items we have to pay for today?

10 response(s), 17 votes