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missing223 41 F
2  questions
is it mean? - 7/17/2008

Quick responses.... I have recently started using them, well so far the same two over and over. I dont think our personalities match, and I am looking for someone more experienced.

Now, Those two describe exactly what it is that I am thinking usually, so it would only make sense to save time to just use the quick response. However, for some reason I have a niggling feeling of slight ...

11 response(s), 17 votes
Sensual_Kisses_ 48 C
2  questions
A question about bling - 7/17/2008

We have a standard member profile. When I try buying bling with my points, a window pops up stating the cost in points, when I click OK, the bling isn't purchased. Similarly, the same happens even on free bling, I click 'take', it changes to 'taken', but is not added to my profile. The only bling we have are a few given to us, and a couple I managed to take, only out of curiosity to see if it ...

6 response(s), 8 votes
rm_slut4camuse 31 F
30  questions
Don't want to be a stalker. - 7/17/2008

I signed up for the matchmaking thing on Ya Hell. One of the recent matches seemed really ideal. I only signed up for the free stuff so I couldn't contact him. Anyway, he sort of stuck in my head and a month or so later I saw him walking around in town. I didn't approach him, which I really regreat. When I went back to check his Ya Hell stuff his account was gone.

I keep thinking ...

17 response(s), 13 votes
rm_MaryRita3 60 F
3  questions
How can I deal with a friend that always wants to one up me - 7/17/2008

We have been friends for decades but have recently grown closer. We are going threw similar life experiences and every time I have a good thing going on from men to cash she comes up with a way to top it. I listen supportingly but sometimes I am not in the mood to hear her brag. Example have just told her I haven't heard from my lover then she'll pop up telling me about hers and how attentive he ...

16 response(s), 9 votes
rm_Ghost001983 36 M
3  questions
Anal penetration - 7/17/2008

The situation I have is that I am visiting a woman who I know from the past. She is waiting for me to come home b/c sh wants me to be her first for anal. We wanted to know what would be the best route for her to prepare for this event? We both know lube is a must. We have heard there are some gels out there that can numb her little pink hole a little. If so what are the names of them and where ...

21 response(s), 14 votes
rm_Ghost001983 36 M
3  questions
To give or Not to give that is the question - 7/17/2008

Okay let me see what you people got on this topic. As I browse through the profiles of the women on this site, the one thing that always makes me think is the part where it says what you are into. Oral sex giving and receiving. I know or hope we are all practicing safe sex. I can't help but wonder though about the oral pleasure. I am just like any other guy and enjoy a good blow job. Although the ...

10 response(s), 10 votes
rm_OprahSesame 37 M
15  questions
Gay men, straight showers - 7/17/2008

Should gay men be allowed to use the mens change room in fitness clubs, and if gay man gets caught looking at straight man while he showers should he be punished or asked to leave?

34 response(s), 49 votes
rm_Silverstuft 34 M
2  questions
Wow - 7/17/2008

I didnt expect to get everyone all tangled and twisted. Thank you for your responses to my earlier question. However I do want to clarify one thing "No matter how old we are we are always growing, no one is completely grown up. I will admit I've made mistakes but I've learned from them. That question was just a question to learn more. i apologize if I did offend anyone. no harm meant." And ...

12 response(s), 11 votes
rm_Wolfwood1069 36 M
1  question
Would you rather cum every 10 minutes, or every 10 years? - 7/17/2008

Yes, the title is a little unoriginal but think of the possibilities, live a life of complete pleasure and discomfort, or a life working up to one intense feeling, women would be smarter, men would be stupider, who knows what could happen depending on the logic involved, give me your input thanks for readin.

15 response(s), 24 votes
Hands2pleasyou 53 M
7  questions
What food makes You HOT ? And how do You like to eat it ? - 7/17/2008

I have worked in kitchens for over half my life and in many we have had the discussion about what foods get people horny and what to make on a date that would get them in the mood.

What kinds of food makes you think of sex, romance, and how do you eat them ?. with your hands ? someone feeding it to you ? off someone or thing ? slowly, fast, how ? [bling ...

15 response(s), 22 votes
dwh1965 59 M
2  questions
Fuck in a park? - 7/17/2008

I have talked to a few women and they all seem to say they want to fuck on the grass in a park..is this true ladies or am I just talking to green women????lol

13 response(s), 37 votes
SexiLuvinGirl 61 F
81  questions
Does One Want The Truth? Relationshps - 7/17/2008

In relationships we so often makes excuses for why we can't and don't want to see or date someone. What I wonder is, do we really want to hear the truth?

I, do find, that that truth does hurt, but I'd much rather hear the truth from someone than a bunch of excuses that ya find out later are lies.

How do you feel? Would you rather have an excuse that may hurt a little less or ...

21 response(s), 39 votes
rm_Ghost001983 36 M
3  questions
Ladies what would get your attention in an email - 7/17/2008

I am fairly new to the site myself. I have sent out so many emails that I am tired of actually spending time to write something for a person that is either fake or does not have enough info in their profile to even start a conversation. If you ladies were sent an email that simply said "Check out my profile and if you like what you see we can chat it up from there" Would you respond or think it ...

12 response(s), 18 votes
wickedcat2006 49 F
292  questions
marriages! - 7/16/2008

after ten years or more in a relationship, the male fantasy is to see his wife have sex with another man or woman? why cant they see it when they are screwing the wife?

25 response(s), 34 votes
Misbehavn2 55 C
37  questions
time of my life - 7/16/2008

i joined this TSdates.com thinking i was going to just get laid like crazy

well i did and am still

but something happened i started making friends i said to my self oh hell no

but it happened i just want to say i really enjoy all of you guys and gals i look forward to opening this side of my profile just to read the questions and answers on here

yes even you anthony ...

19 response(s), 28 votes
ron3856 67 M
16  questions
Leap year - 7/16/2008

When I was growing up I heard that during a leap year the women got to ask the guys out and even to marry them. Has anyone ever heard of this or is it an urban myth?

16 response(s), 9 votes
rm_JeffCH89 34 M
1  question
How do I make contacts with a standard membership? - 7/16/2008

Is there anyway to talk to people without paying any money?

20 response(s), 22 votes
rm_Silverstuft 34 M
2  questions
Help - 7/16/2008

My dad used to tell me when i was growing up not to have sex with the same girl more than on 3 seperate occasions or else she will start getting emotionally attached. Is there a way around that?

25 response(s), 36 votes
funnyguy699 60 M
4  questions
email and profile look up - 7/16/2008

How can a standard member look at others profiles and send emails? Or does the site make you pay for that?

14 response(s), 18 votes
rm_TheHanyou 34 M
1  question
What do girls perfer? - 7/16/2008

Do you girls perfer a guy who looks good, has a big cock, is smart, or is a romantic?

27 response(s), 27 votes
rm_theones469 52 C
1  question
where & when - 7/16/2008

hi, theones469 here>>! we have heard of meetings in public venues (macon in particular)that TSdates.com members get together for meet and greet events.we would love to attend some of these type events if they do in fact happen.does anyone know where we can get info on up cumming events, any help would be greatly appreciated. tnks t&g

11 response(s), 15 votes
rm_PINKFCUK2 24 F
2  questions
response after my first - 7/16/2008

hey everyone,

so i deffinatly got a lot of responses some people saying things that had nothing to do with the question like telling me to got see kung fu panda... umm ya one word bitch.

but thats not why i'm writing. i was reading my responses and all of a sudden i see who i was talking about and he tryed to be cute/funny and say giv him a chance [obviously he knew it was him] ...

15 response(s), 38 votes
Hands2pleasyou 53 M
7  questions
How do You find truthful, honest, and Sincere ? - 7/16/2008

After awhile and all the flirts, Emails, and blings. it is easy to see why the members here are weary of all the fakes and flakes. so with all that noise out there it is almost imposable to find true members not the fake..

How do You find members that are sincere and honest. ...

16 response(s), 22 votes
leashypoo 50 M
3  questions
Do you think your funny? - 7/15/2008

Is it possible that someone asking a question here might really want an answer or advice? The reason i ask is that some of you seem to think this is a forum where you put people down for there curiosity or show superior wit at the expense of others feelings. In either case your not as funny as you or the other dimwits here think you are. Thanks for your time

23 response(s), 38 votes
woodluv2pleseu2 58 M
88  questions
Photos - 7/15/2008

I was just at my favorites photo page, a place that I have never veiwed before. I have twelve photos there. That alone surprised me, I didn't think I clicked that button that much. Well of course there are some that are hidden behind the sheild. So I pull one of those thumbnails over to the left and wish to look behind the sheild. There doesn't seem to be a button to remove the sheild. What good ...

7 response(s), 5 votes
SexiLuvinGirl 61 F
81  questions
What's Too Hairy For Men and Women? - 7/15/2008

What do you consider too hairy for a man and/or woman? I was actually wondering more so about men; but, didn't want to direct the question soley for the women.

I don't like a lot of hair on a man. I do like chest hair; and, a lot. I don't care for a man that has a hairy back or a hairy butt? A little hair; yes.

What's too hairy for you?

16 response(s), 26 votes
Justme1962fc 60 M
5  questions
First time - 7/15/2008

was asked this the other day if I can remember details of the first time I had sex. The question shocked me slightly as I wondered if anyone would forget the first time. My question do you remember your first time in detail or through the years has became just a cloudy memory. As for myself even though more than 30 years ago can still bring the memory to mind vividly.

20 response(s), 28 votes
leashypoo 50 M
3  questions
Whats the difference - 7/15/2008

What is the difference between MMF and MFM of for that matter FFM ands FMF?

19 response(s), 29 votes
rm_hung23cm 64 M
1  question
Why no face pic on profiles? - 7/15/2008

I can understand why many people dont put face pics on their profiles, they are not ready to out themselves in some small town, for example, but why then do so many people say NO PIC, NO ANSWER in the profile? I would think the placing of a face pic in your private album would be enough...

19 response(s), 21 votes
upnorthromance 67 M
4  questions
Ways of getting herpes - 7/15/2008

With herpes getting more and more prevailant , 1 out of 5. How aree the ways one can get herpes. can you get it from giving oral to a woman that has it and can a woman get it from a man who has it by giving oral. can you gives the ways one can get herpes and the way one can avoid getting it.

14 response(s), 10 votes